Lots of people, especially well known coaches, high profile business leaders "posture" or pretend that they do not have drama or that they are not vunerable to drama. The reality is everyone experiences drama sooner or later.
Due to my private coaching, I have heard the secrets you will never hear in public. In addition, I've been there too, and I realize the risk of believing you're "above it all."
Listed here are four truths to help you confront and even welcome your drama.
1. Drama is element of life.
2. Drama keeps you real
3. Drama is just a teacher
4. Overcoming drama contributes to freedom
Drama is a part of life.
The definition for drama is "any obstacle to your peace or prosperity." If you really are a guru living on a remote mountain spending your entire amount of time in meditation you are likely to have some drama here and there. Yes, you will have times when you're in the flow and you believe you've everything figured out. You are making money, your relationships are rewarding and your wellbeing is excellent. Then something happens and you start to feel unstable. The downward spiral begins. The great thing is that the little drama reminds you of your humanity. Dramacool
Drama Keeps You Real
When things are getting well it's easy to get "high and mighty." I'm sure you've seen it. Someone of extraordinary status starts boasting, judging and advising, then something happens. The stock market crashes, they lose their business, their spouse leaves them. As opposed to gloating, just remember that all of us eventually come face to face with drama. Going right on through it yourself keeps you real and helps you build your compassion muscle.
Drama is just a Great Teacher
Most drama is in the mind. You feel inadequate which means you exaggerate your income. You worry that others will judge you because you lost your biggest client. You have a nagging feeling that you are never likely to succeed and you're ashamed of how you look. Could it be you will find hidden lessons on self-acceptance or authenticity? Maybe your drama is trying to educate you on not to confuse what your location is with who you are. Your drama always has rich learning points if you are willing to appear inward.
Overcoming Drama Contributes to Freedom
When I first began my journey I hated my background. I struggled with my identity for the first three to four years even though I was speaking professionally. Eventually, facing your fears contributes to freedom. Listed here are two questions:
1. What are you hiding?
2. What are you afraid of?
Are you hiding a business or relationship failure? Are you afraid you're not necessarily good enough? Are you afraid you'll be seen as a fraud? Are you secretly afraid of rejection?
The biggest fear most of us face is driving a car of judgment. Judgment blocks prosperity and keeps you in a continuing state of "mind drama."
When you are able be who you're without having to hide and without fearing the judgment of others then you have stopped your drama and you're free.
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